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There is an interesting notion that tells us a man cannot get it up when he feels less than comfortable with his partner. But then we ask the question, “why have sexual intercourse with a woman in the first place if he doesn’t feel comfortable doing so?”

It really is a case to case basis. Under the dark cloud of performance anxiety, a man could fail to get hard when he feels inferior or even overwhelmed by the fact that the woman of his dreams is willing to sleep with him. The discomfort stems from his deep seated insecurities and self doubts. The pressure could build up earlier and prior to the sex act. He could have been pursuing her for a very long time, thinking about how hard he is going to be when they finally have sex, and how much she would appreciate his wealth of experience in the sex department.

As mentioned in this article about mental state effects on sexual performance, getting a rock hard erection during the very first sexual contact with a lady could be trickier than the guy anticipated. The discomfort could occur during the meet up, foreplay session or during penetration. The man’s focus shifts from the person to the act, and over analysis of his performance could translate to impotence.

Sexual ego under pressure plays a big role in a man’s performance. A lot of hidden factors play a significant role in the erection process, such as: what will she think of my abilities in bed? and is she impressed yet?

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