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Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems amongst men, with statistics revealing that around 30% of men have experienced the problem at some time in their life and that many men long for improved staying power and to enjoy longer intercourse.

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There are a number of men who may find it difficult to ejaculate at the time they have sex. So here are a few physical causes that may be related with this retarded ejaculation or even how it can be corrected.

Retarded Ejaculation
Difficulty at the time of ejaculating is usually termed by all Doctors as retarded ejaculation. Most of the men who may be facing this problem may also be completely aroused sexually or may even enjoy stimulation, but the fact is that orgasm may seem far away or may never happen.

This may in fact be very much distressing situation for most of the men as it may certainly leave them embarrassed, confused, isolated or even frustrating.

Partners may also blame themselves and it may thus put in more pressure so that he may perform and overcome the problem.

There may be a number of men who may have in fact faced this problem for a longer period of time whenever in any sexual situation. There may also be a number of men who may enjoy masturbating alone but may face trouble when with girl. There may be some who may have this problem at the time of intercourse.

Retrograde ejaculation
This is different as compared to retarded ejaculation. If you may have the feeling of orgasm but never ejaculate then you may be suffering from this. So such people may also find their urine to be cloudy after intercourse. This condition may be due to certain factors like injury in spine or even prostate surgery.

Physical causes
If you ever experience retarded ejaculation no matter if you are masturbating or with your partner, then you need to check with your physician. There may be a number of conditions like diabetes, alcohol abuse, nerve damage, drugs or prostate disease.

Psychological blocks
One of the most common causes of retarded ejaculation may be mind block or even sensations that may in fact prevent ejaculation. Your may be getting signal from your body that you are ready but your mind may be issuing some other signal. So some of the possible reasons may include:

You may be perfectionist. You have to make sex perfect for your partner. It may have become all work and no enjoyment.

You may also be scared to lose control and this may be a part of your character trait in your life.
You may also feel that you are not a good lover so you may never enjoy your sexual sessions if you feel you lack the prowess to please your partner.

You may be feeling that sex is a wrong act so the guilt or shame that may be due to negative childhood may stop you from enjoying your sexual life.  You may also be distracted as you may be concerned about your work or some other task.  You may be spectating so try to concentrate on the sensations of making love. Try fantasizing and this may help you out.

You may be unhappy as you are angry or you may be struggling to stay relaxed. The best option may be to try and solve relationship tensions before you actually enter your bedroom.