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Startling new figures have revealed that the biggest problem for men suffering from impotence could be there own attitude to the condition. Research by Boots the Chemist has revealed that 47 per cent of men would rather suffer in silence than do something about their performance in bed.

Whether they are too proud to accept that they have a problem or too frightened to do anything about it seems that many British men are finding impotence a problem that they are simply unable to face up to. With statistics showing that around 1 in 10 men will suffer from erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives, the problem is a widespread and serious one – impotence can wreck relationships and lead to depression and other related problems in those affected.

It is a worrying situation, particularly as impotence is a condition that men simply do not have to put up with. Viagra, the famous ‘little blue pill’ can do the job for many men but this involves a trip to the doctor to obtain a prescription – not the easiest thing to do if you don’t even want to admit that you have a problem. Thankfully, there are also very effective herbal Viagra supplements on the market that can be bought easily and completely legally without a prescription.

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Men diagnosed with prostate cancer, testicular cancer or heart ailments may need to undergo major surgery that could save their lives. Most cancers, when detected early, are centralized on the organs and can be removed successfully. At the same time, most heart attack patients recover fully after surgery and could do most of the activities they have been used to doing normally after a resting phase.

There are cases when physical recovery becomes faster than emotional and psychological recovery among men who have just gone through a major surgery. They still fear going back to their habits, and consequently, their private lives suffer. They cannot spend as much time on trips and sports with their kids, they still feel hesitant to make love to their wives. This hesitation to partake in what to them are strenous activities becomes the new disease that they have to overcome.

In the intimacy department, men who won’t engage in sex in a year after their attack or operation are seriously missing out on a big portion of their married life. Their partners, though fuilly understanding the source of their husbands’ fears, may not be satisfied with this situation and would gladly have their sex life back if they can. Erection problems or libido loss during this time may be solved by certain ED medications that won’t complicate the delicate state of health of these men.

While the traumatized state is perfectly understandable, it need not stop there. Getting over the trauma of the operation in general is just as important as getting over the disease. Letting the fear to live your life to the fullest.

This article in The Globe and Mail is both alarming and amazing. First of all it talks about erectile dysfunction, a common complaint of men of all ages who have failed more than a few times in sex and intimate moments with their spouses or girlfriends. Secondly (this is the amazing part), it talks about how a new bicycle innovation can be the solution to men bikers who are having trouble getting Mr. Winky up!

Noseless bicycle seats can alleviate crotch pain which afflicts some male bikers. Mounting a bike with a regular bike seat could be painful to some men because the hard seat could rub and desensitize the crotch area. Even in cases when the seat has a foam insert, prolonged biking could still make the groin area more than a bit sore. For men who aren’t used to biking, but would love to feel its beneficial effects on their health (as stated by millions of cardiologists all over the world), perching on a bike for more than a few minutes could bring discomfort like no other. They might just give up on this sport when they realize that their efforts have resulted in severe and crippling erection problems in the bedroom.

Now, what exactly does “desensitized” mean? The dictionary meaning of this word conveys unresponsiveness and nonreaction to various stimuli. In the sexual context, desensitization means not feeling anything down there where it matters, particularly in men. A desensitized penis fails to stay erect for a long time, and certainly not long enough for orgasmic, mind blowing sex. Having these noseless seats installed could complement ED treatment using herbal Viagra. After all, why give up on biking (because of sexual issues) when it’s still the best cardio workout a person can avail of?

There is an interesting notion that tells us a man cannot get it up when he feels less than comfortable with his partner. But then we ask the question, “why have sexual intercourse with a woman in the first place if he doesn’t feel comfortable doing so?”

It really is a case to case basis. Under the dark cloud of performance anxiety, a man could fail to get hard when he feels inferior or even overwhelmed by the fact that the woman of his dreams is willing to sleep with him. The discomfort stems from his deep seated insecurities and self doubts. The pressure could build up earlier and prior to the sex act. He could have been pursuing her for a very long time, thinking about how hard he is going to be when they finally have sex, and how much she would appreciate his wealth of experience in the sex department.

As mentioned in this article about mental state effects on sexual performance, getting a rock hard erection during the very first sexual contact with a lady could be trickier than the guy anticipated. The discomfort could occur during the meet up, foreplay session or during penetration. The man’s focus shifts from the person to the act, and over analysis of his performance could translate to impotence.

Sexual ego under pressure plays a big role in a man’s performance. A lot of hidden factors play a significant role in the erection process, such as: what will she think of my abilities in bed? and is she impressed yet?

A man who has always prided himself on his ability to sexually fulfill women’s desires in his life may find it shocking when, one night, he cannot get it up. All his persuasion skills, confident seduction techniques and claims of bedroom prowess that had led him up to that moment when she’s there with him in bed seem wasted. Feelings of misleading her about his masculinity may lead to embarrassment and frustration. She could be a great sport about it, and offer words of consolation, but he would still be kicking himself about his incapacity to do what he has been doing a hundred times over the past years since he discovered sex.

See, the problem lies with his giving the girl every reason to expect a wild night of passionate sex. Instead, she sits beside him feeling a mixture of guilt and irritation. Was it her fault that he suddenly lost his erection? Did something in her body turn him off so badly that he just does not feel like following through with his promise of making her go wild in bed? She could be, for a few minutes, regretting her decision to skip her lower body workout last week. If she had firmer thighs, maybe he wouldn’t have gone limp on her.

A man’s erection loss in the middle of foreplay or love making could have a profound psychological effect on the woman. Not all women will think that a man’s erection loss does not have anything to do with her. To spare you both the drama of self recrimination, bring herbal Viagra with you to the bedroom. She doesn’t even have to know you took it before sex, but she will definitely marvel at how incredibly masculine you are… like you promised her during your date.

It has always been thought that only old guys (50 years old and older) had erection problems, but recent surveys and results showed that relatively young men (20-30 years of age) have the same symptoms of ED. Erectile dysfunction could catch the young guy off guard, and sometimes, the way he reacts to it could be called funny by onlookers who aren’t going through the pain of not being able to get it on with a girl.

If he (the ED guy) isn’t avoiding sex completely, he would prolong the relationship for as long as possible with several excuses not to make love. This could include massive amounts of foreplay without escalating to sex. If the man notices that there was still nothing going on down there (no erection, not even a weak one), he would most probably just perform more foreplay to her until she had her orgasm.

Dilemma starts when the woman starts to reach down for his member. An ED-afflicted guy would stop the girl from touching him, lest she feels like his lack of erection was somehow related to her physical appearance or her mood. The pride of the guy is at stake; and if the girl found out how he isn’t ready at all after the amount of foreplay they have been through could feel misled or hurt (or worse, guilty). Sometimes the impotent guy would blame it on being drunk, or being too ‘sexed out’ (if he has been sleeping with many partners for a long time). There are other times when he would blame it on being stressed, uncomfortable with the situation and not being on his perfect making love stance. A few men will simply blame it on lack of emotional attachment for the girl, but he won’t say this to her, of course. His confidence in himself sexually could be completely gone before he even thinks of getting help.

The statistics of erectile dysfunction worldwide (based on the collated data presented in UroToday is alarming. The article tells us that by 2025, the estimated number of men afflicted with erection problems globally will have risen to 152 million! Semen quality and sperm viability decrease in older men (50 years old and above), but through modern scientific breakthroughs such as in vitro fertilization and other reproductive techniques, they can still produce kids. However, how fulfilling could it be to sire kids the natural way (sex)? Won’t it be such an achievement to be virile and up to the job even at advanced ages?

Some will say that the likelihood of older men siring kids through sex is difficult to impossible, as age is the biggest risk factor of erection disorders. Difficult may be accurate, but it is not impossible at all. Men over fifty may still have sex regularly with the help of effective ED drugs like Viagra or Herbal Viagra, testosterone treatment and an exercise regimen designed to improve their blood circulation to the penis. There is no known limit to male fertility as men continue to produce viable sperm until they die (though sperm quality in older men is much lower), and theoretically, men can have children even during their twilight years. With this in mind, the role of erection enhancing drugs in increasing the probability of siring kids in these men is relevant.

Performance anxiety is directly related to the inability of a man to enjoy the sexual act. Both men and women feel this kind of inadequacy during sex (usually outside marriage) for several reasons, including cultural and religious ones. The possibility of unexpected pregnancy and hesitation to use a condom could also lead to anxiety during sex.

Openness in sexuality issues

In any culture, laws and regulations are strictly enforced to keep children from having notions of sex, or anything related to it, prior to full adulthood. However, these notions of sex as prohibited, illegal or even dirty sometimes stays with these individuals even when they can legally have sex. Their parents never identified the ages when the ‘dirty sex’ mentality should be reversed. Sex education classes in school aim to educate these kids about sex without encouraging them. But the thin line between what should and should not be done is still debatable.

Erection problems arise in adults that do not feel comfortable about the conditions they are in during the love making session. Some men cannot make love with the lights on, while some others feel a certain uneasiness with making love in inappropriate places. Whatever the cause of these temporary impotence symptoms, the best way to deal with these when they happen is to have a heart to heart talk with one’s partner, usually in the presence of a counselor.

Depression and hypertension sometimes occur at the same time, and the logic behind this is not difficult to follow. A man facing emotional issues, family problems and ego issues; his body reacts accordingly to the stress. A troubled man who does not communicate his psychological and emotional pains use random diversions to relieve them, including extramarital sex, food (lots of it), alcohol or designer drugs. Addiction to these diversions could be related risk factors of ED, and other more serious diseases such as hypertension and atherosclerosis.

A man who takes antidepressants regularly to ward off dangerous symptoms of depression or psychological instability will find themselves losing their libido or appetite for sex. The same effect is observed in men using antihypertensive drugs. These two types of drugs affect sex in a relationship, but men who take these have little choice because not doing so could lead to more serious consequences.

The best recommendation for men who want to keep their virility and ward off impotence symptoms would be to take care of their minds and bodies enough so that they may never have to deal with ED induced by taking antihypertensive and antidepressant medication. Because antidepressants and antihypertensive drugs cause libido to plummet, avoiding depression and hypertension risk factors will help prevent ED. A lifestyle change is mandatory to those who want to be healthy for a long time before age effects catch up to them.