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Erection Loss During Sex: Is It Her Fault?

A man who has always prided himself on his ability to sexually fulfill women’s desires in his life may find it shocking when, one night, he cannot get it up. All his persuasion skills, confident seduction techniques and claims of bedroom prowess that had led him up to that moment when she’s there with him in bed seem wasted. Feelings of misleading her about his masculinity may lead to embarrassment and frustration. She could be a great sport about it, and offer words of consolation, but he would still be kicking himself about his incapacity to do what he has been doing a hundred times over the past years since he discovered sex.

See, the problem lies with his giving the girl every reason to expect a wild night of passionate sex. Instead, she sits beside him feeling a mixture of guilt and irritation. Was it her fault that he suddenly lost his erection? Did something in her body turn him off so badly that he just does not feel like following through with his promise of making her go wild in bed? She could be, for a few minutes, regretting her decision to skip her lower body workout last week. If she had firmer thighs, maybe he wouldn’t have gone limp on her.

A man’s erection loss in the middle of foreplay or love making could have a profound psychological effect on the woman. Not all women will think that a man’s erection loss does not have anything to do with her. To spare you both the drama of self recrimination, bring herbal Viagra with you to the bedroom. She doesn’t even have to know you took it before sex, but she will definitely marvel at how incredibly masculine you are… like you promised her during your date.

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