The Resting Phase: Sex Doldrums

A new relationship or affair is characterised by frequent love making and intense intimacy. This is what the women’s and men’s magazines call the ‘honeymoon phase’. Like a literal honeymoon, this stage in a new relationship will be rife with sex, dates and more sex. One wonders if this will go on forever. Unfortunately, it won’t. There will come a time when the couple goes through that phase called sexual doldrums, when not much sexual activity is happening.

During this time, the man and woman are finding their rhythm. They are adjusting to each other’s sexual urges, but it could also be that they got completely exhausted after their honeymoon phase. During this time of sexual ennui, what they can do is explore each other’s sexuality in a different way, by engaging in sports or activity that increases their interest for each other.

It’s the time to be adventurous, particularly with what the other prefers in bed. Does he like dirty talk? Does he prefer me to dress a certain way prior to love making? Focused consideration of your partner’s wants and quirks sexually will increase the chances of you never having to deal with psychologically caused erection problems.

In the instance that one wants sex more frequently than the other, there are certain herbal ED medicines that the man can drink to increase his sex drive during the sexual doldrums phase. In another article, we discussed the achievement of dating perfection with Herbal  V.

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